Me and the Boys #1: Jay
For the first 20 years of my life, I’ve had a certain relationship with boys. I was either really good, close friends with them, or I would have hopeless crushes on them from afar—and never the twain ever met. That was about the extent of my relationship with the opposite sex. In the “close friend” categorization, there was my cousin Anthony, my cousin’s godbrother Eugene, the nameless boy with my last name in preschool class, Daman, and a few others…